Congratulations!It must have been such a special event for the both of you. I knew that one day that you two were going to join hands, exchange rings and exchange vows of marriage. I certainly remember back when you two were just dating, then became a couple. I often visited you in your small apartment in West LA. We even went out several times for drinks and dinner. But, somewhere in the back of my mind, she didn't really approve of me and my friends. I naturally just took as her being insecure and maybe one day she will she the value of our friendship. But she never did? No! No! She didn't and you two were so proud of yourselves by not at least sending an invitation. But, somehow she remembered to send us an e-mail link to your wedding pictures. But, it seemed like we've been trying to get in touch with you two for over a year now.
Even with the wedding pictures link, I kindly sent you guys an e-mail telling yah, that I was happy for yah, and I wish you two the best. Still no reply. Don't be confused as though I will not make in life without your friendship or your wife's approval. You should know that I don't feel insecure because of your marriage, in fact, I've witnessed many of my friends' weddings, child birth, divorce, seperation and re-marriage. So, you aren't doing anything unique in the world, love is everywhere. Though, I'm not married, this new life of yours shouldn't be a Country Club membership.
I like my friends are very confident on who we are as people, friends and travelers. I won't apologize for being true to what I truly enjoy in life. I remember there was a time, you'd also enjoyed these same things in life. But, now that has changed. And, guess what my friend? that is good, that is good for you! So it has become very clear that I no longer fit into your new life as a married man. You could have at least sent me an e-mail or a telephone call telling me that I am not the person you and your wife want in your new life as a married couple.
So, maybe one day we will cross paths and keep walking in the opposite direction. At least, I am being honest . Will you?
